Wednesday, May 28, 2008

My dad!


Growing up one of my fondest memories is of my nightly songs with dad. He would crawl into bed with me and sing a whole slew of songs every night. The same songs in the same order seems monotonous but it was not, it was wonderful. I grew to love the tradition....so much so that I would beg him to sing to me even when I was in my early teens.

When Cooper was born I came to stay with my parents in Savannah often. We lived in Texas and I hated being so far away. My dad, also known as Papa, would offer to put my sweet Cooper to bed. My mom and I would sit downstairs and listen to my dad sing the same songs in the same order that he used to sing to me....years before. Then we would hear them both snoring! (He cannot help it, he is a hardworking grandfather!!!!)

Cooper LOVES music and begs for his "Papa Songs". Last time my dad was here he took Cooper on to the backporch. They shared the couch, laying down and singing. Tonight Cooper was sitting on lap before bed and he said "Mama, want to take me out on the back porch and sing me "Papa Songs"? I had an even better idea, we let Papa do it over the phone.

I will always remember Cooper sitting on my lap, holding his night nights in one hand and the phone in the other. His sweet voice warmed our hearts as Phil and I watched with a tear in our eye. I could hear my dad through the phone singing the songs that provide me with so many happy and safe memories. We hung up the phone and Cooper said "That was great!". My response was "You are so loved Cooper David!!!".

I tucked Cooper into bed and he asked for some milk. I went to get his cup and when I came back he was on his tummy, under his covers, singing "The Cattle Call".....just like his Papa.

We love you dad. Thanks for being such an amazing man. Cooper tells people that his Papa is one of his best friends. It is so true. That little boy loves you SO much. I can see it in the way he smiles when he hears your name, hangs on your every word and knows every word to every song you sing to him. Thank you!!!!!

I love you.

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Daughters


Fathers, be good to your daughters
Daughters will love like you do
Girls become lovers who turn into mothers
So mothers, be good to your daughters too


I am lucky. I was reading an article today (in Phil's Maxim) about a fightclub in NYC. It is so sad and almost unreal. These young girls are raised in the projects of NYC and learn to fight as a means of defense as early as 2. They see violence all around them and learn it is a way of life. When the magazine asked the man they refer to as "the mayor" why the girls fight he said "They are around it every day. You think women do not pick up on it? They have to.". I read on to find out that these girls go to an empty garage every few weekends and fight in street clothes. The winner takes home $1000. $1000 they say they use to turn their lights back on and feed their babies. They punch each other in the face, kick each other when they are down and so on. It made me so sad!

This is the world we live in. I live in this little country club bubble. My parents love and support me, my brother is a success, my husband has an amazing career, I have two beautiful children, a minivan, a lab....I could go on. There are girls out there litterally fighting to feed their babies. I was sad and then I realized that most moms are the same. We will do ANYTHING for our children.

Children learn what we teach them. They grow to raise their own children in the fashion they were raised. They hold on to our every breath. They mold themselves into little versions of us. They are always watching. I must show Samantha and Cooper a world of love, curiosity and magic. We are lucky!

Now if only I could scoop up all those innocent babies growing up in a world of fear...... I will use the information I read today to remind myself to reach out to those less fortunate.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY GIRL!!!!




Happy Birthday Princess. I love you.

Friday, May 23, 2008

Two more days.....

In two more days, my princess will be 2.



But I do not understand, why do they call them the "terrible twos"? Samantha can talk to me and tells me the most precious things. She is sleeping through the night in her big bed. She gives me the biggest hugs and the sweetest kisses. My baby giggles from her belly and lights up every room she enters. Sure we have a "fit" now and then and I often cannot meet her demands BUT there is NOTHING terrible about the stage she is in. In fact, if I were allowed, I would freeze time. This is an AMAZING stage. Happy almost birthday baby girl.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

ARGH......

My mom and I took the kids (well, I transported them and my parents footed the bill, LOL) to Amelia Island for a few days. The Ritz Carlton, on the beach, is about an hour from us and 2 hours from my mom so it is a good meeting spot. I always LOVE going there b/c it is where Phil proposed and holds happy memories for me.

Cooper and Samantha were in HEAVEN with the splash-park at the pool, giant blow up water slide thingy on the beach, fabulous weather and live band on Monday which Cooper said was "very interesting".

Yesterday Cooper and I went to the Ritz-Kids room while Samantha took a nap (and my mom sat in the room). Cooper got to interact with the parrot "Amelia" and make a pirate treasure chest! Then at 6:30 Cooper and Samantha were visited IN THE ROOM by a pirate queen and Captain Black. The pirate queen (we forget her name) and Captain Black had their pirate outfits on, Amelia (the parrot) on a perch, swords, hats, etc. They came with a tray of cookies and milk and a treasure box for each kid. The pirate queen read the kids a story (it was adorable) and had about 5 props for different parts of the story in the kid's treasure chests. At the end of the story Cooper and Samantha had a stuffed parrot on their arm, eye patch over their eye, a treasure map on their lap, coins in their left hand and a spy-glass in their right. They listened to the story, took pictures with the pirates and talked to Amelia. Samantha was so happy and Cooper could not take his eyes off of Captain Black. What a special treat!!!!!! It was such a magical experience to watch my children truely happy.

I would HIGHLY recommend this as a family vacation spot.

Thanks Mom and Dad for a great mini-vacation that the kids will always remember.

(NOTE: the camera battery died 5 minutes before the pirates arrived so I had to take pictures with a disposable. I will develop them tomorrow and add them to the site.)

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Let them be little......


Today I had a gentle reminder to stop and enjoy my children. It was Cooper's last day of preschool. Yes, his last day as a preschool 2. I woke up this morning like any other. I rushed around the house to get the kids ready and probably missed a few precious moments in the hussle. I ran around town lugging Samantha on my hip getting the final things together for his party after the performance. Cooper walked down the aisle in the chapel and sang 3 songs on the stage. I took LOTS of pictures....but did not focus on his face, his joy, his spirit! A slideshow started after he left the stage and Billy Dean's "Let them be little" and adorable pictures of the precious 2 year old class filled the screen. I was reminded that my baby boy will not always be so small. The days go by faster than they should and he is growing up. I need to STOP now and enjoy every minute with my babies. Someday I will be wishing I had not run all over town, talked on the phone or checked my email......all of it, time wasted. These are the days I have been given to love, laugh and enjoy my children. In 2 years Cooper will board that schoolbus and be off to school 5 days a week and I will cry for the time I wish I still had. Sometimes God sends us gentle reminders. Today I woke up and realized this was going to be the BEST summer ever. I am going to spend EVERY DAY with my kids making tons of messes and memories. Because "you turn around and it is time to let them go. Let them be little cause they are only that way for a while."

Billy Dean: Let Them Be Little

I can remember when you fit in the palm of my hand.
You felt so good in it; no bigger than a minute.
How it amazes me you're changin' with every blink.
Faster than a flower blooms, they grow up all too soon.
So let them be little,'Cause they're only that way for a while.
Give 'em hope, give them praise,Give them love every day.
Let 'em cry, let 'em giggle,Let 'em sleep in the middle,Oh, but let them be little.
I never felt so much in one little tender touch.
I live for those kisses, your prayers an' your wishes.
An' now you're teachin' me how only a child can see.
Tonight, while we're on our knees, all I ask is:
Please, let them be little,'Cause they're only that way for a while.
Give them hope, give them praise,Give them love every day.
Let 'em cry, let 'em giggle,Let 'em sleep in the middle,Oh, but let them be little.
The so innocent, precious soul:
You turn around, an' it's time to let them go.
So let them be little,'Cause they're only that way for a while.
Give them hope, give 'em praise,Give them love every day.
Let 'em cry, let 'em giggle,Let them sleep in the middle,Oh, but let them be little.
Let them be little.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

A video I made.....

I guess I made a video back in Dec. 2006. Obviously I was sleep-deprived because I did not remember I did it. I logged on to make Samantha a birthday video and saw this one......



Enjoy. You may want to mute the music on the side-


http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=1a21c9ab3d809d1718b5ea&skin_id=601&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day


Today is the 100th anniversary of Mother's Day. Happy Mother's Day MOM!!!!


My top 10 list of why I love my mom:

10. Our daily phone calls

9. Her ability to make me feel better in any situation

8. Her strength

7. Her faith and how she shares it with others

6. The love for our family and my dad, she is a role model.

5. The amazing meals she cooks and how she always makes my favorite things when I come home.

4. The sacrifices she has made the last 30 years to make MY life amazing.

3. Her beauty...and the fact she passed it on to my son. (Have you seen their pictures????)

2. The way she rubbed my forhead while I had my c-section with Cooper. I was scared out of my skin and she made me so calm. I just knew everything would be ok.

1. Her amazing love for my children. There is nothing my mom would not do for Cooper and Samantha and they know it. She is so amazing, giving and truely loving.


Mom, I love you so much. You really are my best friend. Thank you for everything you have done for me the last 30 years. You have taught me how to love, teach and raise my own children. I appreciate all the little things you do everyday to make our lives better. I hope you had an amazing mother's day. I am sorry I could not celebrate with you.


I love you,

Katie

I SURVIVED the mud!!!


At 5am on Saturday morning Karen and I woke up in our Disney room to get ready for our Muddy Buddy experience. We looked at each other, discussed crawling back into bed, got dressed and headed out the door. We had trained for this, printed off the course map, etc. but still had butterflies in our tummies. We pulled up to a parking lot PACKED with people looking like Muddy Buddy professionals. Everyone had costumes and/or exposed six pack abs. Things we beginning to look very interesting! We unloaded the bike and headed into the crowd of 2,500 looking for our friends.
We met up with our group and learned that we would not be starting until 8:10 because we were in the 11th wave. This information came about 6:20 so we had 2 full hours to keep ourselves busy!!!!! I called Phil and the kids and told them to come on over to see me start rather than waiting all day to see me finish. They were headed to the Animal Kingdom for the morning.
Karen and I decided that I would run first and she would bike first. This meant that I would run a total of 4 miles and bike 3. After I started the course I was sooooooo thankful she was biking more because the entire course was sand!!!!
The gun went off and we headed on our adventure. I was excited, listening to my ipod and looking forward to a good time. About half way through my first run (1st of 3) I ran into the entire Braves baseball team. They were crossing the course on their way to their practice field....in their uniforms and everything! I was so close to "Eckhart" I could have touched him.

About 10 minutes into the race I got to my first obstacle....a LARGE wooden wall painted camo. I was supposed to climb it (ha) and crawl down ropes on the other side. I was VERY intimidated but did well. (Maybe it was the fact the entire Braves team was watching!!!!) Then I was onto my first (of 2) biking adventures. This was MISERABLE! I am not a great biker in the first place but biking on sand is near to impossible with the $100 Target bike we had. I did NOT enjoy this part of the race but pulled through.

I hit inflatable obstacle number two and thought it looked like fun. I had to climb a 20 foot rope wall and slide down the other side. The only problem with this one was the fact I had a very difficult time getting my short leg hoisted up far enough to start climbing the rope wall! After sliding down, I was off to my second run. This one was long and hot but I enjoyed running around a small lake.

Obstacle number 3.....a balance beam! I had to climb onto the balance beam and walk across 2 of them without falling! This was tough with fatigues muscles but at least there were no walls involved!!!!!

Bike trip #2....still no fun. I was so thrilled to drop my bike and do obstacle #4 because I knew I was almost done. I cannot even explain #4. It was painted camo and I had to climb over and under things. Overall this one was fairly easy.

My last run was fun! Everyone was energized and ready to be done. We ran along side of a main road for a while and that kept me going. We got close to the finish line and I saw my partner bike by. I laughed watching her carry the bike up about 30 stairs. I had to run up them but was so happy she had chosen to bike that leg!

The MUD PIT was awaiting us at the finish. I had to crawl under a large net to get into the mud. Everyone was yelling and screaming at us to get on our bellies and crawl. Being the crowd-pleaser I am, I did this. I also ate mud, got mud in my eye and will be scrubbing mud from my toenails for weeks. We crawled through about a half a soccer field of mud, jumped up and crossed the finish line together. Roughly 1 hour of fun and my clothes will never be the same.

This picture was taken AFTER Karen and I hosed ourselves off!!!! Overall I LOVED participating in the Muddy Buddy, look forward to next year and recommend it to everyone. www.muddybuddy.com . I was proud of myself for running 4 miles, biking 3 and climbing over several large walls. However, I will NEVER forget my first time diving into mud.